Thou knowest Abner the son of Ner, that he came to deceive thee, and to know thy going out and thy coming in, and to know all that thou doest.

2 SAMUEL 3:25KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 3:25 mean?

2 Samuel 3:25 records someone warning King David that Abner, the son of Ner, has come not with honest intentions but to deceive him, to learn about David’s movements and actions. The verse suggests suspicion that Abner is acting as a spy rather than a true ally.

In this verse, Joab is speaking to David after Abner, a former enemy commander, visits David during a tense political situation. Joab warns David not to trust Abner, claiming that Abner’s real purpose is to gather information about David’s activities and plans. This reveals the deep mistrust and political maneuvering happening as David’s rule over Israel is being established.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 3:25

  • "deceive" (פָּתָה, pathah): This word often means to entice, seduce, or mislead. Joab is accusing Abner of coming with the intent to trick David, not just to negotiate.
  • "know" (יָדַע, yada‘): Used several times in this verse, this word means more than just casual knowledge; it often refers to intimate or thorough understanding. Joab is emphasizing that Abner wants to gain detailed insight into David’s strategies and daily life.
  • "going out" (מוֹצָא, motsa’): This term can refer to one’s comings and goings, suggesting Abner is interested in David’s routines and movements, possibly for military or political advantage.

Why 2 Samuel 3:25 matters

  • This verse highlights the deep distrust and suspicion among David’s commanders during the fragile early days of his reign, showing that even apparent allies were viewed with caution.
  • The repeated use of "know" (יָדַע, yada‘) underscores the seriousness of the accusation—Joab is not just worried about casual spying, but about Abner gaining intimate knowledge of David’s plans.
  • The warning sets up later events in the chapter, explaining why Joab takes drastic action against Abner, and it helps the reader understand the tense, complicated relationships in David’s court.

Where else these words appear

“in” Hebrew H4126 · used in 2 verses

  • Ezekiel 43:11 And if they be ashamed of all that they have done, shew them the form of the house, and the fashion thereof, and the goings out thereof, and the comings in thereof, and all the forms thereof, and all the ordinances thereof, and all the forms thereof, and all the laws thereof: and write it in their sight, that they may keep the whole form thereof, and all the ordinances thereof, and do them.

“Ner” Hebrew H5369 · used in 16 verses

  • 1 Samuel 14:50 And the name of Saul's wife was Ahinoam, the daughter of Ahimaaz: and the name of the captain of his host was Abner, the son of Ner, Saul's uncle.
  • 2 Samuel 2:12 And Abner the son of Ner, and the servants of Ishbosheth the son of Saul, went out from Mahanaim to Gibeon.
  • 1 Kings 2:32 And the LORD shall return his blood upon his own head, who fell upon two men more righteous and better than he, and slew them with the sword, my father David not knowing thereof, to wit, Abner the son of Ner, captain of the host of Israel, and Amasa the son of Jether, captain of the host of Judah.

“in” Hebrew H3996 · used in 24 verses

  • Deuteronomy 11:30 Are they not on the other side Jordan, by the way where the sun goeth down, in the land of the Canaanites, which dwell in the champaign over against Gilgal, beside the plains of Moreh?
  • 1 Chronicles 4:39 And they went to the entrance of Gedor, even unto the east side of the valley, to seek pasture for their flocks.
  • Jeremiah 38:14 Then Zedekiah the king sent, and took Jeremiah the prophet unto him into the third entry that is in the house of the LORD: and the king said unto Jeremiah, I will ask thee a thing; hide nothing from me.

“deceive” Hebrew H6601 · used in 26 verses

  • Genesis 9:27 God shall enlarge Japheth, and he shall dwell in the tents of Shem; and Canaan shall be his servant.
  • 2 Chronicles 18:19 And the LORD said, Who shall entice Ahab king of Israel, that he may go up and fall at Ramothgilead? And one spake saying after this manner, and another saying after that manner.
  • Proverbs 16:29 A violent man enticeth his neighbour, and leadeth him into the way that is not good.