And David sent messengers to Ishbosheth Saul's son, saying, Deliver me my wife Michal, which I espoused to me for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines.

2 SAMUEL 3:14KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 3:14 mean?

2 Samuel 3:14 describes David sending messengers to Ishbosheth, the son of Saul, demanding the return of his wife Michal, whom David had married as the result of fulfilling Saul’s demand for one hundred Philistine foreskins. David is insisting on his right to have Michal back, based on the original agreement and his actions.

David is speaking to Ishbosheth, who is ruling over part of Israel after Saul’s death, while David rules in Hebron. The verse shows David asserting both a personal and political claim: Michal was his wife by right, and her return would strengthen his position as Saul’s legitimate successor. The mention of the bride price—the one hundred Philistine foreskins—reminds the reader of the dangerous task David completed to marry Michal, underlining the legitimacy of his claim.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 3:14

  • מִיכַל (Mikhal, “Michal”): This is the name of Saul’s daughter and David’s wife. Her return is not just about marriage but also about royal legitimacy and alliances.
  • אֵשֶׁת (eshet, “wife”): The Hebrew word emphasizes that Michal is David’s lawful wife, not just a woman he desires to reclaim.
  • מֵאָה (me’ah, “hundred”): The specific number in the bride price highlights the cost and risk David undertook, reinforcing the seriousness of the original marriage agreement.
  • עָרְלוֹת (orlot, “foreskins”): This unusual bride price was meant to be a dangerous challenge, showing David’s bravery and commitment.

Why 2 Samuel 3:14 matters

  • The verse clarifies that David’s demand for Michal is not just personal but rooted in a formal agreement and a significant act of bravery, countering any idea that he is acting out of mere desire or spite.
  • By addressing Ishbosheth, David is making a political statement about his rights to Saul’s legacy, since Michal’s return would strengthen his claim to the throne.
  • The verse connects back to earlier events in 1 Samuel, reminding readers of the history between David, Saul, and Michal, and showing how past actions continue to shape the present political landscape.

Where else these words appear

“Ishbosheth” Hebrew H378 · used in 10 verses

  • 2 Samuel 2:8 But Abner the son of Ner, captain of Saul's host, took Ishbosheth the son of Saul, and brought him over to Mahanaim;
  • 2 Samuel 2:15 Then there arose and went over by number twelve of Benjamin, which pertained to Ishbosheth the son of Saul, and twelve of the servants of David.
  • 2 Samuel 4:5 And the sons of Rimmon the Beerothite, Rechab and Baanah, went, and came about the heat of the day to the house of Ishbosheth, who lay on a bed at noon.

“espoused” Hebrew H781 · used in 10 verses

  • Exodus 22:16 And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.
  • Deuteronomy 22:25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die:
  • Deuteronomy 28:30 Thou shalt betroth a wife, and another man shall lie with her: thou shalt build an house, and thou shalt not dwell therein: thou shalt plant a vineyard, and shalt not gather the grapes thereof.

“foreskins” Hebrew H6190 · used in 16 verses

  • Genesis 17:11 And ye shall circumcise the flesh of your foreskin; and it shall be a token of the covenant betwixt me and you.
  • Genesis 34:14 And they said unto them, We cannot do this thing, to give our sister to one that is uncircumcised; for that were a reproach unto us:
  • Joshua 5:3 And Joshua made him sharp knives, and circumcised the children of Israel at the hill of the foreskins.

“Michal” Hebrew H4324 · used in 17 verses

  • 1 Samuel 14:49 Now the sons of Saul were Jonathan, and Ishui, and Melchishua: and the names of his two daughters were these; the name of the firstborn Merab, and the name of the younger Michal:
  • 1 Samuel 19:12 So Michal let David down through a window: and he went, and fled, and escaped.
  • 2 Samuel 6:16 And as the ark of the LORD came into the city of David, Michal Saul's daughter looked through a window, and saw king David leaping and dancing before the LORD; and she despised him in her heart.