And all his sons and all his daughters rose up to comfort him; but he refused to be comforted; and he said, For I will go down into the grave unto my son mourning. Thus his father wept for him.

GENESIS 37:35KJV
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What does Genesis 37:35 mean?

Genesis 37:35 describes how Jacob’s sons and daughters tried to comfort him after he believed Joseph was dead, but Jacob refused to be comforted and said he would mourn for Joseph until his own death. The verse ends by stating that Jacob continued to grieve deeply for his son.

In this verse, Jacob is speaking after seeing Joseph’s bloodied coat and thinking his beloved son has been killed. His family tries to console him, but Jacob’s sorrow is so great that he cannot accept their comfort. He expresses that he will carry his grief to the grave, showing the depth of his love and loss.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 37:35

  • The word for “grave” is שְׁאוֹל (sheol), which often refers to the realm of the dead or the underworld, not just a physical grave. Jacob’s statement shows he expects to mourn Joseph for the rest of his life, even into death.
  • The word for “comfort” is נָחַם (nacham), which can mean to be consoled or to find relief from grief. Jacob’s refusal (מָאֵן, ma’en) to be comforted emphasizes how complete and overwhelming his sorrow is.
  • The word for “mourning” is אֵבֶל (’evel), which specifically refers to the deep, ritualized grief over a lost loved one. This highlights that Jacob’s grief is not just sadness, but a profound, ongoing mourning.

Why Genesis 37:35 matters

  • This verse shows the depth of Jacob’s grief and how real and lasting loss can feel, even when surrounded by support from loved ones.
  • The mention of “sons and daughters” trying to comfort Jacob emphasizes the family’s concern and the impact Joseph’s supposed death had on the whole household.
  • The verse sets the stage for the later reunion between Jacob and Joseph, making that moment even more powerful by showing how long and deeply Jacob mourned.

Where else these words appear

“mourning” Hebrew H57 · used in 8 verses

  • Esther 6:12 And Mordecai came again to the king's gate. But Haman hasted to his house mourning, and having his head covered.
  • Psalms 35:14 I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother.
  • Isaiah 61:2 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all that mourn;

“refused” Hebrew H3985 · used in 39 verses

  • Genesis 39:8 But he refused, and said unto his master's wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand;
  • 1 Samuel 28:23 But he refused, and said, I will not eat. But his servants, together with the woman, compelled him; and he hearkened unto their voice. So he arose from the earth, and sat upon the bed.
  • Proverbs 21:25 The desire of the slothful killeth him; for his hands refuse to labour.

“grave” Hebrew H7585 · used in 63 verses

  • Genesis 42:38 And he said, My son shall not go down with you; for his brother is dead, and he is left alone: if mischief befall him by the way in the which ye go, then shall ye bring down my gray hairs with sorrow to the grave.
  • Psalms 16:10 For thou wilt not leave my soul in hell; neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see corruption.
  • Proverbs 30:16 The grave; and the barren womb; the earth that is not filled with water; and the fire that saith not, It is enough.

“comfort” Hebrew H5162 · used in 100 verses

  • Genesis 5:29 And he called his name Noah, saying, This same shall comfort us concerning our work and toil of our hands, because of the ground which the LORD hath cursed.
  • Job 42:6 Wherefore I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes.
  • Jeremiah 18:10 If it do evil in my sight, that it obey not my voice, then I will repent of the good, wherewith I said I would benefit them.