But if her husband hath utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD shall forgive her.

NUMBERS 30:12KJV
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What does Numbers 30:12 mean?

Numbers 30:12 explains that if a husband completely cancels his wife’s vows or promises on the same day he hears about them, then those vows will not be binding, and God will forgive her for not keeping them. The authority to make the vows void rests with the husband, and the woman is released from responsibility.

In this passage, Moses is relaying God’s instructions to the Israelites about vows made by women, specifically wives. The verse sets out a rule for family order in ancient Israel, where a husband could nullify his wife’s spoken vows or binding promises if he did so immediately upon hearing them. The verse emphasizes that if the husband acts quickly, the woman is not held guilty for breaking her word, because her husband has officially canceled her commitment.

The Hebrew behind Numbers 30:12

  • "Utterly" and "void" (הֵפֵר, hēfer): This word appears multiple times here, meaning to annul, break, or make invalid. The repetition stresses the completeness of the husband's action—he does not just weaken the vow, but fully cancels it.
  • "Vows" (נֶדֶר, neder): This refers to a solemn promise or commitment made to God. The use of this word shows the seriousness of what is being canceled.
  • "Bond" (אֱסָר, ʾēsar): This word means a binding obligation or pledge. It highlights that the promise was not casual, but something that would otherwise be morally and spiritually binding.
  • "Forgive" (סָלַח, sālaḥ): This word means to pardon or release from guilt. It clarifies that God does not hold the woman accountable for the vow once it is annulled by her husband.

Why Numbers 30:12 matters

  • Numbers 30:12 clarifies that the responsibility for keeping or breaking the vow shifts from the woman to her husband if he cancels it right away, removing any guilt from her.
  • The verse shows the importance placed on spoken promises in ancient Israel, as well as the family authority structure that governed how such promises could be managed.
  • Understanding this rule helps make sense of the wider passage, which deals with various scenarios involving vows and the roles of fathers and husbands in confirming or annulling them.

Where else these words appear

“bond” Hebrew H632 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 30:2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.
  • Numbers 30:5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.
  • Numbers 30:11 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her, and disallowed her not: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.

“proceeded” Hebrew H4161 · used in 26 verses

  • Numbers 33:2 And Moses wrote their goings out according to their journeys by the commandment of the LORD: and these are their journeys according to their goings out.
  • Job 28:1 Surely there is a vein for the silver, and a place for gold where they fine it.
  • Isaiah 41:18 I will open rivers in high places, and fountains in the midst of the valleys: I will make the wilderness a pool of water, and the dry land springs of water.

“forgive” Hebrew H5545 · used in 45 verses

  • Exodus 34:9 And he said, If now I have found grace in thy sight, O Lord, let my Lord, I pray thee, go among us; for it is a stiffnecked people; and pardon our iniquity and our sin, and take us for thine inheritance.
  • Numbers 15:26 And it shall be forgiven all the congregation of the children of Israel, and the stranger that sojourneth among them; seeing all the people were in ignorance.
  • 2 Chronicles 6:30 Then hear thou from heaven thy dwelling place, and forgive, and render unto every man according unto all his ways, whose heart thou knowest;(for thou only knowest the hearts of the children of men:)

“utterly” Hebrew H6565 · used in 46 verses

  • Genesis 17:14 And the uncircumcised man child whose flesh of his foreskin is not circumcised, that soul shall be cut off from his people; he hath broken my covenant.
  • Ezra 9:14 Should we again break thy commandments, and join in affinity with the people of these abominations? wouldest not thou be angry with us till thou hadst consumed us, so that there should be no remnant nor escaping?
  • Isaiah 33:8 The highways lie waste, the wayfaring man ceaseth: he hath broken the covenant, he hath despised the cities, he regardeth no man.