And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.

NUMBERS 30:7KJV
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What does Numbers 30:7 mean?

Numbers 30:7 says that if a husband hears his wife make a vow and does not say anything about it on the day he hears it, then her vow and any promise she made are considered valid and binding. His silence is taken as agreement, so her commitments stand.

In this section, Moses is giving instructions from God to the Israelites about vows and promises, especially those made by women. The verse describes a situation where a married woman makes a vow, and her husband hears about it. If he does not object right away, his lack of response means he accepts her vow, and she must keep it.

The Hebrew behind Numbers 30:7

  • חָרַשׁ (ḥārash, "peace"): This word is often understood as "to be silent" or "to hold one's peace." Here, it means the husband does not speak up or object, which is important because his silence is what allows the vow to stand.
  • נֶדֶר (neder, "vows"): This word refers to a vow or solemn promise made to God. The verse emphasizes that such promises are serious and binding if not challenged.
  • אִסָּר (issar, "bonds"): This word means a binding obligation or oath. It highlights that the woman’s promise is not just words but a binding commitment.
  • נֶפֶשׁ (nephesh, "soul"): This word means "life" or "self," showing that the vow is something she has bound herself to personally and deeply.

Why Numbers 30:7 matters

  • Numbers 30:7 clarifies that silence from the husband is legally meaningful; it is not neutral but counts as approval of the vow.
  • The verse shows the seriousness with which vows and promises were treated in ancient Israel, especially within family relationships.
  • This instruction fits into a larger set of rules about vows in Numbers 30, showing how family authority and individual responsibility were balanced in Israelite society.

Where else these words appear

“bonds” Hebrew H632 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 30:2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.
  • Numbers 30:5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.
  • Numbers 30:12 But if her husband hath utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD shall forgive her.

“vows” Hebrew H5088 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 28:20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on,
  • Numbers 30:5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.
  • 2 Samuel 15:8 For thy servant vowed a vow while I abode at Geshur in Syria, saying, If the LORD shall bring me again indeed to Jerusalem, then I will serve the LORD.

“bound” Hebrew H631 · used in 64 verses

  • Genesis 39:20 And Joseph's master took him, and put him into the prison, a place where the king's prisoners were bound: and he was there in the prison.
  • Judges 16:5 And the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and said unto her, Entice him, and see wherein his great strength lieth, and by what means we may prevail against him, that we may bind him to afflict him: and we will give thee every one of us eleven hundred pieces of silver.
  • 2 Chronicles 33:11 Wherefore the LORD brought upon them the captains of the host of the king of Assyria, which took Manasseh among the thorns, and bound him with fetters, and carried him to Babylon.

“peace” Hebrew H2790 · used in 66 verses

  • Genesis 24:21 And the man wondering at her held his peace, to wit whether the LORD had made his journey prosperous or not.
  • Esther 7:4 For we are sold, I and my people, to be destroyed, to be slain, and to perish. But if we had been sold for bondmen and bondwomen, I had held my tongue, although the enemy could not countervail the king's damage.
  • Proverbs 6:18 An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,