But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.

NUMBERS 30:5KJV
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What does Numbers 30:5 mean?

Numbers 30:5 explains that if a young woman makes a vow or promise, but her father hears about it and refuses to allow it on the same day, her vow will not be binding, and God will forgive her because her father did not permit it. The verse shows that the father's decision has authority over his daughter's vows in this context.

In Numbers 30:5, Moses is relaying God’s instructions to the Israelites about vows made by women living in their father’s house. The verse describes a situation where a daughter makes a serious promise or commitment, but her father objects when he hears about it. If the father disallows (refuses) the vow right away, the daughter is released from her obligation, and God does not hold her to it.

The Hebrew behind Numbers 30:5

  • "Disallow" (נָאַה, naʾah): This word means to refuse or forbid. The verse emphasizes the father's active role in either allowing or canceling his daughter's vow, showing his responsibility in the family structure.
  • "Vows" (נֶדֶר, neder) and "bonds" (אֵסָר, ʾēsar): Both words refer to promises or commitments made to God, but "bonds" often suggests a more binding or restrictive promise. The verse covers both types, stressing that any such commitment can be canceled by the father.
  • "Forgive" (סָלַח, salach): This word means to pardon or release from guilt. The verse reassures that if the father cancels the vow, God will not hold the daughter accountable, highlighting God's understanding and mercy in family situations.

Why Numbers 30:5 matters

  • Numbers 30:5 clarifies that a daughter’s vow is not automatically binding if her father objects immediately, which helps prevent misunderstandings about personal responsibility in family settings.
  • The verse highlights the importance of family authority and structure in ancient Israel, especially regarding spiritual commitments.
  • This instruction fits into a larger passage about vows, showing that God’s law made room for family oversight and protected individuals from making rash promises they could not keep.

Where else these words appear

“disallow” Hebrew H5106 · used in 7 verses

  • Numbers 30:8 But if her husband disallowed her on the day that he heard it; then he shall make her vow which she vowed, and that which she uttered with her lips, wherewith she bound her soul, of none effect: and the LORD shall forgive her.
  • Numbers 32:7 And wherefore discourage ye the heart of the children of Israel from going over into the land which the LORD hath given them?
  • Psalms 33:10 The LORD bringeth the counsel of the heathen to nought: he maketh the devices of the people of none effect.

“bonds” Hebrew H632 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 30:2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.
  • Numbers 30:7 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.
  • Numbers 30:12 But if her husband hath utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD shall forgive her.

“forgive” Hebrew H5545 · used in 45 verses

  • Exodus 34:9 And he said, If now I have found grace in thy sight, O Lord, let my Lord, I pray thee, go among us; for it is a stiffnecked people; and pardon our iniquity and our sin, and take us for thine inheritance.
  • Numbers 15:26 And it shall be forgiven all the congregation of the children of Israel, and the stranger that sojourneth among them; seeing all the people were in ignorance.
  • 2 Chronicles 6:30 Then hear thou from heaven thy dwelling place, and forgive, and render unto every man according unto all his ways, whose heart thou knowest;(for thou only knowest the hearts of the children of men:)

“vows” Hebrew H5088 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 28:20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on,
  • Numbers 30:6 And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed, or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul;
  • 2 Samuel 15:8 For thy servant vowed a vow while I abode at Geshur in Syria, saying, If the LORD shall bring me again indeed to Jerusalem, then I will serve the LORD.