If a woman also vow a vow unto the LORD, and bind herself by a bond, being in her father's house in her youth;

NUMBERS 30:3KJV
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What does Numbers 30:3 mean?

Numbers 30:3 explains that if a young woman, still living in her father’s house, makes a vow to the LORD and binds herself with a promise, her vow is taken seriously and has real weight. The verse sets up the rules for how such vows are recognized and handled within her family and community.

Moses is speaking to the Israelites, giving them God’s instructions about vows and promises. The focus here is on a young woman’s commitment made to the LORD (the personal name for God), specifically while she is still under her father’s authority at home. This verse introduces the idea that even those who might be seen as having less social power—like young women—can make binding spiritual commitments, but their family situation affects how those vows are treated.

The Hebrew behind Numbers 30:3

  • woman (אִשָּׁה, ishah): This word often means "woman" or "wife," but here it refers specifically to a young, unmarried woman living at home, highlighting her dependent status.
  • vow (נָדַר, nadar) and vow (נֶדֶר, neder): The first is the verb "to vow," and the second is the noun "a vow." The repetition shows both the act of making a promise and the promise itself are important.
  • bind (אָסַר, asar) and bond (אֵסָר, esar): The verb means "to bind" or "obligate," and the noun means "a binding agreement." This language emphasizes that the vow is not just words but creates a real obligation.
  • youth (נְעוּרִים, ne’urim): This word means "youth" or "young age," clarifying that the instructions apply to a daughter who is not yet independent.

Why Numbers 30:3 matters

  • Numbers 30:3 shows that vows made by young women were taken seriously, but also recognizes the role of family authority in ancient Israel, which affects how those vows are enforced.
  • The verse helps clarify the balance between personal spiritual responsibility and the social structure of the family, especially for those not yet fully independent.
  • This verse sets up the rest of the chapter, which explains what happens if a father hears his daughter’s vow and either allows it or cancels it, showing the practical outworking of these rules in daily life.

Where else these words appear

“bond” Hebrew H632 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 30:2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.
  • Numbers 30:7 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.
  • Numbers 30:12 But if her husband hath utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD shall forgive her.

“vow” Hebrew H5087 · used in 28 verses

  • Genesis 28:20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on,
  • Deuteronomy 12:17 Thou mayest not eat within thy gates the tithe of thy corn, or of thy wine, or of thy oil, or the firstlings of thy herds or of thy flock, nor any of thy vows which thou vowest, nor thy freewill offerings, or heave offering of thine hand:
  • Psalms 76:11 Vow, and pay unto the LORD your God: let all that be round about him bring presents unto him that ought to be feared.

“youth” Hebrew H5271 · used in 46 verses

  • Genesis 8:21 And the LORD smelled a sweet savour; and the LORD said in his heart, I will not again curse the ground any more for man's sake; for the imagination of man's heart is evil from his youth; neither will I again smite any more every thing living, as I have done.
  • Psalms 129:1 A Song of degrees. Many a time have they afflicted me from my youth, may Israel now say:
  • Jeremiah 48:11 Moab hath been at ease from his youth, and he hath settled on his lees, and hath not been emptied from vessel to vessel, neither hath he gone into captivity: therefore his taste remained in him, and his scent is not changed.

“vow” Hebrew H5088 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 28:20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on,
  • Numbers 30:6 And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed, or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul;
  • 2 Samuel 15:8 For thy servant vowed a vow while I abode at Geshur in Syria, saying, If the LORD shall bring me again indeed to Jerusalem, then I will serve the LORD.