Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void.

NUMBERS 30:13KJV
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What does Numbers 30:13 mean?

Numbers 30:13 says that a husband has the authority to either confirm or cancel any vow or binding oath his wife makes that involves self-denial or personal hardship. The verse highlights the husband's role in either upholding or annulling such promises made by his wife.

In this part of Numbers, Moses is relaying God's instructions to the Israelites about vows and oaths. The focus here is on family order and responsibility, specifically regarding promises that might affect a woman's well-being ("to afflict the soul") and how her husband could intervene. This reflects the social and legal customs of ancient Israel, where family heads had certain responsibilities for the household.

The Hebrew behind Numbers 30:13

  • The word for "vow" is נֶדֶר (neder), which means a solemn promise or commitment made to God. This shows the seriousness of what is being discussed.
  • "Binding" comes from אִסָּר (issar), meaning a binding obligation or restriction, emphasizing that these are not casual promises but ones that carry weight and consequences.
  • "Afflict" is עָנָה (anah), often understood as humbling or denying oneself, which in this context refers to vows that involve personal sacrifice or hardship.
  • "Void" is פָּרַר (parar), meaning to break or annul, highlighting the husband's ability to completely cancel the effect of such a vow.

Why Numbers 30:13 matters

  • Numbers 30:13 clarifies that not all vows are automatically binding; there was a process for review and possible annulment within the family structure.
  • The verse helps explain the broader passage's focus on responsibility and accountability in making promises, especially those that could cause hardship.
  • Understanding this verse sheds light on the social and legal framework of ancient Israel, where family heads were given authority to protect family members from rash or harmful commitments.

Where else these words appear

“binding” Hebrew H632 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 30:2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.
  • Numbers 30:5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.
  • Numbers 30:11 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her, and disallowed her not: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she bound her soul shall stand.

“oath” Hebrew H7621 · used in 29 verses

  • Genesis 24:8 And if the woman will not be willing to follow thee, then thou shalt be clear from this my oath: only bring not my son thither again.
  • Joshua 2:20 And if thou utter this our business, then we will be quit of thine oath which thou hast made us to swear.
  • Nehemiah 10:29 They clave to their brethren, their nobles, and entered into a curse, and into an oath, to walk in God's law, which was given by Moses the servant of God, and to observe and do all the commandments of the LORD our Lord, and his judgments and his statutes;

“void” Hebrew H6565 · used in 46 verses

  • Genesis 17:14 And the uncircumcised man child whose flesh of his foreskin is not circumcised, that soul shall be cut off from his people; he hath broken my covenant.
  • Ezra 9:14 Should we again break thy commandments, and join in affinity with the people of these abominations? wouldest not thou be angry with us till thou hadst consumed us, so that there should be no remnant nor escaping?
  • Isaiah 33:8 The highways lie waste, the wayfaring man ceaseth: he hath broken the covenant, he hath despised the cities, he regardeth no man.

“vow” Hebrew H5088 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 28:20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on,
  • Numbers 30:5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her.
  • 2 Samuel 15:8 For thy servant vowed a vow while I abode at Geshur in Syria, saying, If the LORD shall bring me again indeed to Jerusalem, then I will serve the LORD.