Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul.

PROVERBS 29:17KJV
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What does Proverbs 29:17 mean?

Proverbs 29:17 teaches that when a parent corrects or disciplines their child, the result is peace and joy for the parent. The verse promises that proper guidance leads to a child who brings comfort and happiness to those who raise them.

In Proverbs 29:17, the writer—traditionally Solomon—speaks to parents about the value of discipline. The setting is practical family life, where a parent's willingness to correct their child is seen as an act of love that leads to long-term rest and delight. The verse highlights the connection between responsible parenting and the well-being of both parent and child.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 29:17

  • "Correct" (יָסַר, yāsar): This word means to discipline, instruct, or chasten. It carries the idea of teaching through correction, not just punishment, suggesting a caring guidance rather than harshness.
  • "Rest" (נוּחַ, nûaḥ): This word means to give relief, quiet, or peace. The verse promises that the parent's effort in discipline will lead to a sense of calm and relief, not just for the child but especially for the parent.
  • "Delight" (מַעֲדַנִּים, maʿădanîm): This word refers to something pleasurable or delightful. The verse uses it to describe the deep satisfaction and joy a parent experiences when their child grows up well.

Why Proverbs 29:17 matters

  • Proverbs 29:17 clarifies that discipline is not about anger or control, but about loving instruction that benefits both child and parent.
  • The verse emphasizes the long-term rewards of parenting with wisdom and care, rather than focusing only on immediate results.
  • This proverb connects to the wider biblical theme that wise correction leads to peace and joy, showing that discipline is a gift, not a burden.

Where else these words appear

“delight” Hebrew H4574 · used in 4 verses

  • Genesis 49:20 Out of Asher his bread shall be fat, and he shall yield royal dainties.
  • 1 Samuel 15:32 Then said Samuel, Bring ye hither to me Agag the king of the Amalekites. And Agag came unto him delicately. And Agag said, Surely the bitterness of death is past.
  • Lamentations 4:5 They that did feed delicately are desolate in the streets: they that were brought up in scarlet embrace dunghills.

“Correct” Hebrew H3256 · used in 38 verses

  • Leviticus 26:18 And if ye will not yet for all this hearken unto me, then I will punish you seven times more for your sins.
  • Job 4:3 Behold, thou hast instructed many, and thou hast strengthened the weak hands.
  • Proverbs 31:1 The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him.

“rest” Hebrew H5117 · used in 64 verses

  • Genesis 8:4 And the ark rested in the seventh month, on the seventeenth day of the month, upon the mountains of Ararat.
  • 2 Samuel 7:11 And as since the time that I commanded judges to be over my people Israel, and have caused thee to rest from all thine enemies. Also the LORD telleth thee that he will make thee an house.
  • Isaiah 7:19 And they shall come, and shall rest all of them in the desolate valleys, and in the holes of the rocks, and upon all thorns, and upon all bushes.