And when the servants of David were come to Abigail to Carmel, they spake unto her, saying, David sent us unto thee, to take thee to him to wife.

1 SAMUEL 25:40KJV
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1 Samuel 25:40 (KJV)

What does 1 Samuel 25:40 mean?

1 Samuel 25:40 describes how David’s servants arrived at Abigail’s home in Carmel and told her that David had sent them to bring her to him as his wife. The verse shows the formal step where David’s intention to marry Abigail is made clear through his messengers.

In this setting, David has just lost his first wife Michal and, after the death of Abigail’s husband Nabal, he seeks to marry Abigail. The servants act as official representatives, following the customs of the time where marriage proposals and arrangements were often handled through intermediaries. Abigail is approached with respect, and the message is direct about David’s purpose.

The Hebrew behind 1 Samuel 25:40

  • עֶבֶד (ʿeved, H5650) — "servants": This word refers to David’s attendants or representatives. Their role here is official and respectful, not just as laborers but as trusted messengers.
  • לָקַח (laqach, H3947) — "take": This verb means "to take" or "to receive," and in the context of marriage, it carries the sense of formally bringing someone into a new household. It highlights the customary way marriages were arranged, emphasizing both action and intent.
  • אִשָּׁה (ishah, H802) — "wife": This word simply means "woman" or "wife," but its use here makes clear that the purpose of the visit is marriage, not any other kind of relationship.

Why 1 Samuel 25:40 matters

  • This verse clarifies that David’s approach to Abigail was formal and respectful, following the social customs of the time rather than acting impulsively or without proper procedure.
  • It connects to the wider story by showing how Abigail, who had previously acted wisely to save her household, is now being honored with a marriage proposal from David, a future king.
  • The verse helps clear up any misunderstanding that David took Abigail by force; instead, he sent messengers to invite her, giving her dignity and choice in the process.

Where else these words appear

“Abigail” Hebrew H26 · used in 17 verses

  • 1 Samuel 25:3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.
  • 1 Samuel 25:36 And Abigail came to Nabal; and, behold, he held a feast in his house, like the feast of a king; and Nabal's heart was merry within him, for he was very drunken: wherefore she told him nothing, less or more, until the morning light.
  • 2 Samuel 2:2 So David went up thither, and his two wives also, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail Nabal's wife the Carmelite.

“Carmel” Hebrew H3760 · used in 25 verses

  • Joshua 12:22 The king of Kedesh, one; the king of Jokneam of Carmel, one;
  • 1 Kings 18:20 So Ahab sent unto all the children of Israel, and gathered the prophets together unto mount Carmel.
  • Isaiah 35:2 It shall blossom abundantly, and rejoice even with joy and singing: the glory of Lebanon shall be given unto it, the excellency of Carmel and Sharon, they shall see the glory of the LORD, and the excellency of our God.