The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better than a liar.

PROVERBS 19:22KJV
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What does Proverbs 19:22 mean?

Proverbs 19:22 teaches that a person's true value is shown by their kindness, and that it is better to be poor and honest than to be a liar. The verse highlights the importance of character over wealth or status.

In this proverb, the writer (traditionally Solomon) is offering wisdom to anyone seeking to live well. The verse contrasts two types of people: one who is poor but truthful, and one who lies, suggesting that integrity and kindness are more admirable than riches gained through dishonesty. The focus is on what truly matters in a person's life and relationships.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 19:22

  • "desire" (תַּאֲוָה, ta'avah): This word often means longing or what someone truly wants. In this verse, it points to the deep wish or value that defines a person.
  • "kindness" (חֶסֶד, chesed): This word means loyal love, mercy, or steadfast kindness. The verse suggests that kindness is what people most desire to be known for, or what makes a person truly valuable.
  • "poor man" (רָשׁ, rash): This word describes someone who lacks material wealth. The verse uses it to show that poverty is not shameful if the person is honest.
  • "liar" (כָּזָב, kazav): This word means someone who is deceitful or false. The contrast is between being poor and truthful versus being dishonest, regardless of wealth.

Why Proverbs 19:22 matters

  • Proverbs 19:22 corrects the common idea that wealth or outward success is what makes someone valuable, instead pointing to kindness and honesty as true measures of worth.
  • The verse highlights that integrity is more important than material possessions, encouraging readers to value character over riches.
  • In the context of Proverbs, this saying fits with the broader theme that wisdom and upright living lead to a better life, even if it does not always bring material wealth.

Where else these words appear

“desire” Hebrew H8378 · used in 20 verses

  • Genesis 3:6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.
  • Psalms 38:9 Lord, all my desire is before thee; and my groaning is not hid from thee.
  • Proverbs 11:23 The desire of the righteous is only good: but the expectation of the wicked is wrath.

“man” Hebrew H7326 · used in 24 verses

  • 1 Samuel 18:23 And Saul's servants spake those words in the ears of David. And David said, Seemeth it to you a light thing to be a king's son in law, seeing that I am a poor man, and lightly esteemed?
  • Proverbs 13:7 There is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing: there is that maketh himself poor, yet hath great riches.
  • Proverbs 22:2 The rich and poor meet together: the LORD is the maker of them all.

“liar” Hebrew H3577 · used in 31 verses

  • Judges 16:10 And Delilah said unto Samson, Behold, thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: now tell me, I pray thee, wherewith thou mightest be bound.
  • Proverbs 14:25 A true witness delivereth souls: but a deceitful witness speaketh lies.
  • Ezekiel 13:8 Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; Because ye have spoken vanity, and seen lies, therefore, behold, I am against you, saith the Lord GOD.