All the brethren of the poor do hate him: how much more do his friends go far from him? he pursueth them with words, yet they are wanting to him.

PROVERBS 19:7KJV
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What does Proverbs 19:7 mean?

Proverbs 19:7 describes how a poor person is often rejected not only by his own family but even more so by his friends, who distance themselves from him. Even when the poor person tries to reach out and plead with words, those he turns to do not respond or help.

This proverb is part of a collection of wise sayings traditionally attributed to Solomon, offering insight into human nature and social realities. The verse highlights the painful isolation that poverty can bring, showing that even close relationships may fail when someone is in need. The focus is on the social consequences of poverty, not on blaming the poor or excusing those who turn away.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 19:7

  • The word for "brethren" (אַחִים, 'achim) means family members or close kin, emphasizing that even those who should be most loyal may turn away.
  • The word for "hate" (שָׂנֵא, sane) often means to reject or distance oneself from someone, not just strong personal dislike.
  • The word for "friends" (מֵרֵעַ, merea) refers to companions or close associates, showing the widening circle of people who abandon the poor.
  • The word for "far" (רָחַק, rachaq) means to keep at a distance, stressing the deliberate separation by those who once were close.
  • The word for "pursueth" (רָדַף, radaf) means to chase after or earnestly seek, showing the poor person's active effort to seek help.
  • The word for "words" (אִמְרֵי, imrei) refers to spoken pleas or requests, highlighting that the poor person is not silent but is ignored.

Why Proverbs 19:7 matters

  • Proverbs 19:7 clears up the idea that poverty is only a financial issue; it shows the deep social and emotional costs, including rejection by family and friends.
  • The proverb emphasizes the reality that even those closest to us may fail to support us in hard times, challenging the assumption that kinship or friendship always means loyalty.
  • This verse connects to the wider theme in Proverbs about the importance of compassion and the dangers of selfishness, encouraging readers to notice and reflect on how society treats those in need.

Where else these words appear

“friends” Hebrew H4828 · used in 7 verses

  • Genesis 26:26 Then Abimelech went to him from Gerar, and Ahuzzath one of his friends, and Phichol the chief captain of his army.
  • Judges 14:20 But Samson's wife was given to his companion, whom he had used as his friend.
  • Judges 15:6 Then the Philistines said, Who hath done this? And they answered, Samson, the son in law of the Timnite, because he had taken his wife, and given her to his companion. And the Philistines came up, and burnt her and her father with fire.

“poor” Hebrew H7326 · used in 24 verses

  • 1 Samuel 18:23 And Saul's servants spake those words in the ears of David. And David said, Seemeth it to you a light thing to be a king's son in law, seeing that I am a poor man, and lightly esteemed?
  • Proverbs 13:7 There is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing: there is that maketh himself poor, yet hath great riches.
  • Proverbs 22:2 The rich and poor meet together: the LORD is the maker of them all.

“words” Hebrew H561 · used in 47 verses

  • Genesis 49:21 Naphtali is a hind let loose: he giveth goodly words.
  • Job 33:3 My words shall be of the uprightness of my heart: and my lips shall utter knowledge clearly.
  • Proverbs 4:20 My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.

“far” Hebrew H7368 · used in 56 verses

  • Genesis 21:16 And she went, and sat her down over against him a good way off, as it were a bowshot: for she said, Let me not see the death of the child. And she sat over against him, and lift up her voice, and wept.
  • Psalms 22:11 Be not far from me; for trouble is near; for there is none to help.
  • Isaiah 6:12 And the LORD have removed men far away, and there be a great forsaking in the midst of the land.