And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: and Orpah kissed her mother in law; but Ruth clave unto her.

RUTH 1:14KJV
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What does Ruth 1:14 mean?

Ruth 1:14 describes a moment when Orpah and Ruth, two daughters-in-law, react emotionally as Naomi urges them to return to their own families. Orpah chooses to leave by kissing Naomi goodbye, but Ruth refuses to go and clings tightly to her.

In this scene, Naomi is urging both women to return to their homes after the death of their husbands. The verse highlights the different choices each woman makes: Orpah departs with affection, while Ruth’s decision to "cleave" to Naomi shows a deep, loyal attachment that sets the stage for Ruth’s continued journey with her mother-in-law.

The Hebrew behind Ruth 1:14

  • "Clave" is from the Hebrew דָּבַק (davaq), which means to cling, stick, or hold fast. This word often describes a strong, almost inseparable bond, suggesting Ruth’s commitment to Naomi is not casual but deeply rooted and determined.
  • "Kissed" comes from נָשַׁק (nashaq), meaning to kiss, often as a sign of affection or farewell. Orpah’s kiss is a tender gesture, but it also marks her departure, contrasting with Ruth’s choice to stay.

Why Ruth 1:14 matters

  • The verse draws a sharp contrast between Orpah’s and Ruth’s responses, making Ruth’s loyalty stand out even more in the story.
  • Ruth’s act of clinging to Naomi is a turning point, showing the depth of her commitment and setting up her important role in the rest of the book.
  • Understanding the strength of the word "clave" helps readers appreciate that Ruth’s decision was not just emotional but a deliberate and lasting choice.