So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand.

2 SAMUEL 13:6KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 13:6 mean?

2 Samuel 13:6 describes Amnon pretending to be sick so that when King David comes to visit him, Amnon can ask the king to send his sister Tamar to prepare food for him and serve it to him personally. This request is part of Amnon’s plan to get Tamar alone with him under false pretenses.

In this scene, Amnon is speaking to his father, King David, while pretending to be ill. Amnon specifically asks for Tamar, his half-sister, to come and make cakes in his presence, saying he wants to eat from her hand. This verse sets up the events that follow, showing Amnon’s deception and how he manipulates David’s concern as a father.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 13:6

  • "Sick" (חָלָה, chalah): This word means to be weak or ill. Amnon is not actually sick; he is faking illness to trick his father and get what he wants.
  • "Make" (לָבַב, lavav): The word used here is often understood as "to prepare" or "to cook," specifically referring to making cakes. The request for Tamar to make food in his sight is a calculated move to create a private setting.
  • "Cakes" (לֵבִיבָה, levivah): This refers to a kind of cake or bread, possibly a simple, heart-shaped cake. The detail about the food is not just about eating but about creating an excuse for Tamar’s presence.
  • "Eat" (אָכַל, akhal): Amnon says he wants to eat from Tamar’s hand, emphasizing a personal, intimate act, which is part of his manipulative plan.

Why 2 Samuel 13:6 matters

  • This verse highlights Amnon’s deceit and the lengths he is willing to go to carry out his intentions toward Tamar, setting up the tragic events that follow.
  • The details about the food and the request for Tamar to serve him personally show how Amnon manipulates both David’s authority and Tamar’s trust.
  • Understanding this verse helps clarify the dynamics in David’s family and the vulnerabilities that are exploited, which become important in the chapters that follow.