If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

DEUTERONOMY 22:13KJV
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What does Deuteronomy 22:13 mean?

Deuteronomy 22:13 describes a situation where a man marries a woman, has sexual relations with her, and then comes to dislike or reject her. The verse introduces a case that will be addressed in the following verses, setting up a legal scenario about marriage and accusations.

In the context, Moses is speaking to the Israelites, giving them laws for community life as they prepare to enter the Promised Land. This verse begins a section dealing with accusations a husband might make against his wife, especially regarding her character or faithfulness. The focus is on the responsibilities and protections within marriage, especially for the woman.

The Hebrew behind Deuteronomy 22:13

  • man (אִישׁ, ish): This word refers to an adult male, often used for "husband" in marriage contexts. Here, it emphasizes the husband's role and responsibility in the situation.
  • take (לָקַח, laqach): This verb means "to take" or "to marry" in this context, highlighting the formal act of entering into marriage.
  • wife (אִשָּׁה, ishah): This is the standard word for "woman" or "wife," making it clear the relationship is a marriage.
  • in (בּוֹא, bo): This verb means "to go in," a common Hebrew way to refer to sexual relations in marriage.
  • hate (שָׂנֵא, sane): This word means "to hate" or "to reject." In this context, it does not necessarily mean intense hatred but can refer to strong dislike or rejection, especially in a marital relationship.

Why Deuteronomy 22:13 matters

  • Deuteronomy 22:13 sets up a legal case that will be addressed in detail in the following verses, showing that the law is concerned with both the husband's claims and the wife's protection.
  • The verse highlights that ancient Israelite law recognized the possibility of marital conflict and provided procedures to handle accusations, rather than leaving the wife defenseless.
  • Understanding the specific words used helps clarify that "hate" here is about rejection or turning against a spouse, not just emotional dislike, which shapes how the following laws are applied.

Where else these words appear

“hate” Hebrew H8130 · used in 139 verses

  • Genesis 24:60 And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the gate of those which hate them.
  • Esther 9:5 Thus the Jews smote all their enemies with the stroke of the sword, and slaughter, and destruction, and did what they would unto those that hated them.
  • Proverbs 1:29 For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD: