If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

DEUTERONOMY 22:28KJV
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What does Deuteronomy 22:28 mean?

Deuteronomy 22:28 describes a situation where a man finds a young woman who is a virgin and not engaged, seizes her, and has sexual relations with her, and the act becomes known. The verse sets up the circumstances for what the law will require in response to this event.

In this part of Deuteronomy, Moses is giving the Israelites specific laws about sexual conduct and protecting vulnerable people. The verse is not a command but a description of a case that the law will address in the next verse. The focus is on the status of the woman (a virgin, not betrothed) and the fact that the act is discovered, which triggers a legal response.

The Hebrew behind Deuteronomy 22:28

  • "man" (אִישׁ, ish): This word refers to an adult male, highlighting that the law applies to grown men, not boys.
  • "find" (מָצָא, matsa): This verb often means to come upon or encounter, suggesting the meeting was not planned or expected.
  • "damsel" (נַעֲרָה, na'arah): This term means a young woman, usually of marriageable age, but not yet married.
  • "virgin" (בְּתוּלָה, betulah): This word specifically means a woman who has not had sexual relations, emphasizing her social and legal status.
  • "betrothed" (אָרַשׂ, arash): This means engaged or promised in marriage; the law distinguishes between women who are and are not engaged.
  • "hold" (תָּפַשׂ, tafas): This verb can mean to seize or take hold of, which often suggests force or lack of consent.
  • "lie" (שָׁכַב, shakav): This is the standard word for having sexual relations.
  • "found" (מָצָא, matsa): Repeated here, it means the act becomes known or discovered, which is necessary for the law to be applied.

Why Deuteronomy 22:28 matters

  • This verse clarifies that the law treats cases involving unengaged virgins differently from those involving engaged women, which are covered in the previous verses.
  • The specific words for "seize" and "found" show the law is addressing a situation where the act is not consensual and is brought to light, not something hidden or agreed upon.
  • Understanding this verse helps clarify the legal protections and social concerns in ancient Israel regarding women’s status, consent, and family honor.

Where else these words appear

“betrothed” Hebrew H781 · used in 10 verses

  • Exodus 22:16 And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.
  • Deuteronomy 22:25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die:
  • 2 Samuel 3:14 And David sent messengers to Ishbosheth Saul's son, saying, Deliver me my wife Michal, which I espoused to me for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines.

“virgin” Hebrew H1330 · used in 50 verses

  • Genesis 24:16 And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her: and she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up.
  • Esther 2:3 And let the king appoint officers in all the provinces of his kingdom, that they may gather together all the fair young virgins unto Shushan the palace, to the house of the women, unto the custody of Hege the king's chamberlain, keeper of the women; and let their things for purification be given them:
  • Jeremiah 31:13 Then shall the virgin rejoice in the dance, both young men and old together: for I will turn their mourning into joy, and will comfort them, and make them rejoice from their sorrow.

“damsel” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.
  • 1 Kings 1:3 So they sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of Israel, and found Abishag a Shunammite, and brought her to the king.

“hold” Hebrew H8610 · used in 60 verses

  • Genesis 4:21 And his brother's name was Jubal: he was the father of all such as handle the harp and organ.
  • 2 Kings 16:9 And the king of Assyria hearkened unto him: for the king of Assyria went up against Damascus, and took it, and carried the people of it captive to Kir, and slew Rezin.
  • Jeremiah 50:16 Cut off the sower from Babylon, and him that handleth the sickle in the time of harvest: for fear of the oppressing sword they shall turn every one to his people, and they shall flee every one to his own land.