Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

DEUTERONOMY 22:29KJV
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What does Deuteronomy 22:29 mean?

Deuteronomy 22:29 sets out the consequences for a man who has sex with a young woman in the situation described in the preceding verse. The law requires him to pay her father fifty shekels of silver and to marry her, with no right to divorce her for the rest of his life.

Moses is presenting this law to the Israelites. The KJV says the man has “humbled” the young woman, a word that points to the harm or dishonor associated with his act. The verse places the payment and the lasting obligation on the man.

The Hebrew behind Deuteronomy 22:29

  • “humbled” — עָנָה (ʿanah): This word can mean to humble, afflict, or violate. Here, it describes what the man has done to the young woman and carries a stronger sense than making someone feel modest.
  • “put her away” — שָׁלַח (shalach): This word can mean to send away. In the setting of marriage here, the phrase refers to dismissing a wife, or divorcing her.

Why Deuteronomy 22:29 matters

  • The woman’s marriage status is important to the case. Verse 28 describes her as a young woman who is not pledged to be married, unlike the cases immediately before it.
  • The payment goes to the woman’s father, according to the verse. That detail shows how the law dealt with the family as well as the man and the woman.
  • The permanent restriction falls on the man’s ability to end the marriage: “he may not put her away all his days.” The sentence treats marriage as an enduring obligation for him, not a choice he can later undo by divorce.

Where else these words appear

“damsel's” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.
  • 1 Kings 1:3 So they sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of Israel, and found Abishag a Shunammite, and brought her to the king.

“humbled” Hebrew H6031 · used in 80 verses

  • Genesis 15:13 And he said unto Abram, Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them four hundred years;
  • Judges 16:6 And Delilah said to Samson, Tell me, I pray thee, wherein thy great strength lieth, and wherewith thou mightest be bound to afflict thee.
  • Psalms 107:17 Fools because of their transgression, and because of their iniquities, are afflicted.

“fifty” Hebrew H2572 · used in 141 verses

  • Genesis 6:15 And this is the fashion which thou shalt make it of: The length of the ark shall be three hundred cubits, the breadth of it fifty cubits, and the height of it thirty cubits.
  • Numbers 4:30 From thirty years old and upward even unto fifty years old shalt thou number them, every one that entereth into the service, to do the work of the tabernacle of the congregation.
  • 1 Chronicles 5:21 And they took away their cattle; of their camels fifty thousand, and of sheep two hundred and fifty thousand, and of asses two thousand, and of men an hundred thousand.