And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;

DEUTERONOMY 22:16KJV
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What does Deuteronomy 22:16 mean?

Deuteronomy 22:16 describes a situation where a young woman's father speaks to the community elders, declaring that he gave his daughter in marriage to a man who now rejects or dislikes her. The verse shows the father's defense of his daughter in a public setting, addressing accusations or disputes about her character or the marriage.

In this context, the father is responding to claims made by the husband, likely about the daughter's purity or worthiness. The elders are local leaders who hear such cases. The verse highlights the father's role in standing up for his daughter and the formal process for handling marital disputes in ancient Israel.

The Hebrew behind Deuteronomy 22:16

  • "damsel's" (נַעֲרָה, na‘ărah): This word refers specifically to a young, unmarried woman, emphasizing the daughter's youth and vulnerability in this legal setting.
  • "elders" (זָקֵן, zāqēn): The term means "older men" or "community leaders," showing that respected local authorities are involved in resolving the matter.
  • "hateth" (שָׂנֵא, śānē’): This verb means "to hate" or "to reject," and here it points to the husband's strong negative feelings or actions toward his wife, not just mild dislike.

Why Deuteronomy 22:16 matters

  • Deuteronomy 22:16 clarifies that the father is not just a bystander but an active defender of his daughter's reputation before the community.
  • The verse shows the importance of public, communal involvement in personal disputes, especially to protect vulnerable individuals from false accusations.
  • This verse connects to the larger passage about justice and fairness in marriage, highlighting procedures meant to prevent abuse or slander within families.

Where else these words appear

“damsel's” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
  • 1 Kings 1:3 So they sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of Israel, and found Abishag a Shunammite, and brought her to the king.

“hateth” Hebrew H8130 · used in 139 verses

  • Genesis 24:60 And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the gate of those which hate them.
  • Esther 9:5 Thus the Jews smote all their enemies with the stroke of the sword, and slaughter, and destruction, and did what they would unto those that hated them.
  • Proverbs 1:29 For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD: