If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her;

DEUTERONOMY 22:23KJV
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What does Deuteronomy 22:23 mean?

Deuteronomy 22:23 sets up a situation where a young woman who is a virgin and is engaged to be married is found in a city with another man, and the two have sexual relations. The verse is introducing a legal case about sexual morality and betrothal in ancient Israel.

Moses is speaking to the Israelites, giving them laws for living as God's people in the land. This verse begins a specific scenario about a "damsel" (young woman) who is both a virgin and betrothed, highlighting the seriousness of sexual relations outside of marriage, especially within the context of engagement. The city setting is important, as it relates to what follows in the next verses about responsibility and consent.

The Hebrew behind Deuteronomy 22:23

  • "damsel" (נַעֲרָה, na‘arah): This word refers to a young woman, often unmarried and of marriageable age. The focus is on her youth and unmarried status.
  • "virgin" (בְּתוּלָה, bətulah): This word specifically means a woman who has not had sexual relations. The law is addressing a case involving her sexual purity.
  • "betrothed" (אָרַשׂ, ’aras): This means legally engaged or pledged to be married. In ancient Israel, betrothal was a binding agreement, almost as serious as marriage itself.
  • "city" (עִיר, ‘ir): The mention of a city is significant because it implies a public setting where help could be called for, which affects the judgment in the following verses.

Why Deuteronomy 22:23 matters

  • This verse clarifies that engagement in ancient Israel was a binding commitment, and breaking it through sexual relations with someone else was treated very seriously.
  • The details about the woman being a virgin and the encounter happening in a city set up the legal distinctions made in the next verses, showing the law’s concern for justice and consent.
  • Understanding this verse helps make sense of the broader passage, which deals with different scenarios of sexual misconduct and the community’s responsibility to uphold moral standards.

Where else these words appear

“betrothed” Hebrew H781 · used in 10 verses

  • Exodus 22:16 And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.
  • Deuteronomy 22:27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.
  • 2 Samuel 3:14 And David sent messengers to Ishbosheth Saul's son, saying, Deliver me my wife Michal, which I espoused to me for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines.

“virgin” Hebrew H1330 · used in 50 verses

  • Genesis 24:16 And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her: and she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up.
  • Esther 2:3 And let the king appoint officers in all the provinces of his kingdom, that they may gather together all the fair young virgins unto Shushan the palace, to the house of the women, unto the custody of Hege the king's chamberlain, keeper of the women; and let their things for purification be given them:
  • Jeremiah 31:13 Then shall the virgin rejoice in the dance, both young men and old together: for I will turn their mourning into joy, and will comfort them, and make them rejoice from their sorrow.

“damsel” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
  • 1 Kings 1:3 So they sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of Israel, and found Abishag a Shunammite, and brought her to the king.