And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:

DEUTERONOMY 22:14KJV
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What does Deuteronomy 22:14 mean?

Deuteronomy 22:14 describes a husband accusing his new wife of not being a virgin when they married. His accusation damages her reputation and becomes the subject of a dispute that her parents bring before the town’s elders.

The husband’s words follow his dislike of his wife in verse 13. In the KJV, “when I came to her” refers to their sexual relations. “I found her not a maid” is his claim about her status before the marriage, not a statement by the narrator that the claim is true.

The Hebrew behind Deuteronomy 22:14

  • “occasions” — עֲלִילָה (ʿalilah): The word can refer to an action or a charge. With “speech,” it conveys accusations made against the woman, rather than merely chances for people to talk.
  • “maid” — בְּתוּלִים (betulim): The word here refers to virginity. The husband claims that he did not find the signs of virginity he expected when they had sexual relations.

Why Deuteronomy 22:14 matters

  • The husband’s accusation has consequences beyond the couple’s private dispute. The phrase “bring up an evil name upon her” points to damage to her public reputation.
  • The account distinguishes an accusation from a finding. In verses 15–17, the woman’s parents bring what they regard as evidence of her virginity to the town elders.
  • The passage gives the elders responsibility for responding to the dispute. Verses 18–19 describe penalties for the husband when his accusation is rejected, while verses 20–21 describe a severe penalty for the woman if the charge is upheld.

Where else these words appear

“maid” Hebrew H1331 · used in 9 verses

  • Leviticus 21:13 And he shall take a wife in her virginity.
  • Deuteronomy 22:17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
  • Judges 11:38 And he said, Go. And he sent her away for two months: and she went with her companions, and bewailed her virginity upon the mountains.

“occasions” Hebrew H5949 · used in 24 verses

  • Deuteronomy 22:17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
  • Psalms 78:11 And forgat his works, and his wonders that he had shewed them.
  • Ezekiel 20:43 And there shall ye remember your ways, and all your doings, wherein ye have been defiled; and ye shall lothe yourselves in your own sight for all your evils that ye have committed.