For John said unto him, It is not lawful for thee to have her.

MATTHEW 14:4KJV
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What does Matthew 14:4 mean?

Matthew 14:4 records John the Baptist telling Herod that it was not lawful for him to have Herodias as his wife. John was confronting Herod about a marriage that went against Jewish law, making a clear statement about right and wrong.

In this verse, John the Baptist is speaking directly to Herod Antipas, who had taken his brother’s wife, Herodias. John’s words are a bold challenge to the ruler’s actions, rooted in the Jewish understanding of lawful marriage. This confrontation sets the stage for the conflict that leads to John’s imprisonment and eventual execution.

The Greek behind Matthew 14:4

  • The word “lawful” is from the Greek ἔξεστιν (exestin), which means “permitted” or “allowed.” John is not just giving advice; he is declaring that Herod’s actions are against what is permitted by law, specifically the Jewish law.
  • The Greek word for “have” is ἔχειν (echein), which in this context refers to possessing or being married to someone. The sense is not just about physical possession, but about an ongoing relationship or union that is not allowed.

Why Matthew 14:4 matters

  • This verse clarifies that John’s criticism of Herod was not personal but was based on a clear standard of law, showing John’s commitment to truth even in the face of danger.
  • The confrontation explains why Herod and Herodias were so hostile toward John, providing important context for the events that follow in the chapter.
  • Matthew 14:4 highlights the tension between prophetic truth-telling and political power, a theme that runs throughout the Gospels.

Where else these words appear

“is” Greek G1832 · used in 30 verses

  • Matthew 12:2 But when the Pharisees saw it, they said unto him, Behold, thy disciples do that which is not lawful to do upon the sabbath day.
  • Mark 2:26 How he went into the house of God in the days of Abiathar the high priest, and did eat the shewbread, which is not lawful to eat but for the priests, and gave also to them which were with him?
  • John 5:10 The Jews therefore said unto him that was cured, It is the sabbath day: it is not lawful for thee to carry thy bed.

“John” Greek G2491 · used in 130 verses

  • Matthew 3:1 In those days came John the Baptist, preaching in the wilderness of Judaea,
  • Mark 9:38 And John answered him, saying, Master, we saw one casting out devils in thy name, and he followeth not us: and we forbad him, because he followeth not us.
  • John 1:32 And John bare record, saying, I saw the Spirit descending from heaven like a dove, and it abode upon him.