And the king was sorry: nevertheless for the oath's sake, and them which sat with him at meat, he commanded it to be given her.

MATTHEW 14:9KJV
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What does Matthew 14:9 mean?

Matthew 14:9 describes how King Herod felt regret about ordering John the Baptist’s execution, but because he had made a public promise in front of his dinner guests, he felt pressured to go through with it. The verse shows Herod acting against his conscience to keep his word and save face in front of others.

In this scene, King Herod has just been asked by Herodias’s daughter for the head of John the Baptist, after Herod rashly promised her anything she wanted. The verse highlights Herod’s emotional struggle—he is “sorry” about the request, but his concern for his oath and reputation before those dining with him leads him to give the order anyway. This moment reveals the tension between personal conviction and public image.

The Greek behind Matthew 14:9

  • “Sorry” (λυπέω, lypeō): This Greek word often means to be deeply grieved or distressed, suggesting Herod’s regret was real and not just a passing feeling.
  • “For the oath’s sake” (ὅρκους, horkous): The Greek here points to a solemn public promise, not just a casual statement, which made Herod feel bound to fulfill it.
  • “Them which sat with him at meat” (συνανακείμενοι, synanakeimenoi): This phrase refers to those reclining at the banquet table with Herod, emphasizing the public nature of the event and the social pressure he felt.
  • “Commanded” (κελεύω, keleuō): The Greek word here means to give a firm order, showing that Herod made a decisive move despite his regret.

Why Matthew 14:9 matters

  • Matthew 14:9 clears up the idea that Herod wanted John the Baptist dead from the start; instead, it shows he was reluctant but acted out of social pressure and a desire to keep his word.
  • The verse highlights the powerful influence of public opinion and pride, showing how even a king can feel trapped by his own promises.
  • This moment connects to the larger story by showing the tragic cost of rash words and the dangers of valuing reputation over doing what is right.

Where else these words appear

“meat” Greek G4873 · used in 9 verses

  • Matthew 9:10 And it came to pass, as Jesus sat at meat in the house, behold, many publicans and sinners came and sat down with him and his disciples.
  • Mark 6:22 And when the daughter of the said Herodias came in, and danced, and pleased Herod and them that sat with him, the king said unto the damsel, Ask of me whatsoever thou wilt, and I will give it thee.
  • Luke 14:10 But when thou art bidden, go and sit down in the lowest room; that when he that bade thee cometh, he may say unto thee, Friend, go up higher: then shalt thou have worship in the presence of them that sit at meat with thee.

“sake” Greek G3727 · used in 10 verses

  • Matthew 5:33 Again, ye have heard that it hath been said by them of old time, Thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oaths:
  • Mark 6:26 And the king was exceeding sorry; yet for his oath's sake, and for their sakes which sat with him, he would not reject her.
  • Hebrews 6:16 For men verily swear by the greater: and an oath for confirmation is to them an end of all strife.

“sorry” Greek G3076 · used in 21 verses

  • Matthew 17:23 And they shall kill him, and the third day he shall be raised again. And they were exceeding sorry.
  • Mark 14:19 And they began to be sorrowful, and to say unto him one by one, Is it I? and another said, Is it I?
  • 2 Corinthians 6:10 As sorrowful, yet alway rejoicing; as poor, yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing all things.

“commanded” Greek G2753 · used in 27 verses

  • Matthew 8:18 Now when Jesus saw great multitudes about him, he gave commandment to depart unto the other side.
  • Acts 4:15 But when they had commanded them to go aside out of the council, they conferred among themselves,
  • Acts 23:3 Then said Paul unto him, God shall smite thee, thou whited wall: for sittest thou to judge me after the law, and commandest me to be smitten contrary to the law?