Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my bowels in the Lord.

PHILEMON 1:20KJV
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What does Philemon 1:20 mean?

Philemon 1:20 is Paul’s personal appeal to Philemon, asking him to bring Paul joy “in the Lord” by showing kindness and forgiveness, specifically regarding Onesimus. Paul uses warm, family-like language to urge Philemon to refresh his “bowels” (meaning his heart or deep feelings) by doing what Paul hopes for as a fellow believer.

Paul is writing to Philemon, a Christian in Colossae, about Onesimus, a runaway slave who has become a believer. Paul is asking Philemon to welcome Onesimus back not as a slave but as a brother in Christ. In this verse, Paul expresses his desire for Philemon’s actions to encourage and comfort him deeply, showing the close relationship between them and the importance of Christian love and reconciliation.

The Greek behind Philemon 1:20

  • The word “bowels” (σπλάγχνα, splanchnon) in Greek refers to the inner parts, often used to mean the seat of emotions or deep feelings. Paul is asking for emotional encouragement, not just a surface-level favor.
  • The word “refresh” (ἀναπαύω, anapauō) means to give rest or relief. Paul is seeking genuine comfort and encouragement from Philemon’s response, showing how much this matter weighs on him personally.
  • The phrase “joy of thee” uses the Greek word ὀναίμην (onaimēn), which is rare and carries the sense of benefit or profit. Paul is gently reminding Philemon that he can “profit” Paul by acting with grace.

Why Philemon 1:20 matters

  • This verse highlights the personal and emotional nature of Paul’s appeal, showing that Christian relationships are meant to be deeply caring and restorative.
  • Understanding the Greek words helps clarify that Paul is not talking about physical refreshment but about being uplifted and encouraged at the deepest level.
  • The verse connects to the larger theme of the letter: reconciliation and forgiveness within the Christian community, modeled by Paul’s loving and respectful approach.

Where else these words appear

“bowels” Greek G4698 · used in 11 verses

  • Luke 1:78 Through the tender mercy of our God; whereby the dayspring from on high hath visited us,
  • 2 Corinthians 7:15 And his inward affection is more abundant toward you, whilst he remembereth the obedience of you all, how with fear and trembling ye received him.
  • Colossians 3:12 Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;

“refresh” Greek G373 · used in 12 verses

  • Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
  • Mark 14:41 And he cometh the third time, and saith unto them, Sleep on now, and take your rest: it is enough, the hour is come; behold, the Son of man is betrayed into the hands of sinners.
  • Philemon 1:7 For we have great joy and consolation in thy love, because the bowels of the saints are refreshed by thee, brother.

“Yea” Greek G3483 · used in 29 verses

  • Matthew 5:37 But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.
  • Luke 7:26 But what went ye out for to see? A prophet? Yea, I say unto you, and much more than a prophet.
  • Romans 3:29 Is he the God of the Jews only? is he not also of the Gentiles? Yes, of the Gentiles also: