For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

PROVERBS 6:34KJV
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What does Proverbs 6:34 mean?

Proverbs 6:34 warns that jealousy can make a person extremely angry, so much so that he will not hold back when he seeks revenge. The verse highlights how powerful and consuming jealousy can be, especially when someone feels wronged.

In the context of Proverbs 6, the writer (traditionally Solomon) is warning his audience—often imagined as a young man—about the dangers of adultery. This verse explains why getting involved with someone else's spouse is so risky: the jealous husband’s anger can lead to violent retaliation, and he will not be inclined to forgive or show mercy.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 6:34

  • "jealousy" (קִנְאָה, qinʾah): This word often refers to a burning zeal or passion, not just suspicion. Here, it describes an intense emotional response, emphasizing how overwhelming jealousy can be.
  • "rage" (חֵמָה, ḥemah): This word means heat, fury, or wrath. It paints a picture of anger that is hot and uncontrollable, showing that jealousy is not just a quiet feeling but can erupt into fierce anger.
  • "man" (גֶּבֶר, gever): This word refers to a strong or mighty man, not just any person. It suggests that even someone who is usually in control can be overtaken by jealousy.
  • "spare" (חָמַל, ḥamal): This verb means to have pity or show mercy. The verse says the jealous person will not show mercy, underlining the seriousness of the warning.
  • "day" (יוֹם, yom): This is the ordinary word for "day," but in this context, it means the time when the jealous person acts on his anger.
  • "vengeance" (נָקָם, naqam): This word means revenge or retribution. It clarifies that the jealous person’s actions are not random but are meant to pay back a perceived wrong.

Why Proverbs 6:34 matters

  • Proverbs 6:34 helps clear up any idea that jealousy is a minor or harmless emotion; the verse shows it can drive a person to extreme and even violent actions.
  • The verse emphasizes the real-world consequences of adultery, not just moral or spiritual ones, by warning about the likely response of a wronged spouse.
  • This warning fits into the larger passage, which urges wisdom and self-control, by showing how foolish choices can provoke dangerous situations that are hard to escape.

Where else these words appear

“vengeance” Hebrew H5359 · used in 17 verses

  • Leviticus 26:25 And I will bring a sword upon you, that shall avenge the quarrel of my covenant: and when ye are gathered together within your cities, I will send the pestilence among you; and ye shall be delivered into the hand of the enemy.
  • Psalms 58:10 The righteous shall rejoice when he seeth the vengeance: he shall wash his feet in the blood of the wicked.
  • Isaiah 61:2 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all that mourn;

“spare” Hebrew H2550 · used in 40 verses

  • Exodus 2:6 And when she had opened it, she saw the child: and, behold, the babe wept. And she had compassion on him, and said, This is one of the Hebrews' children.
  • Job 20:13 Though he spare it, and forsake it not; but keep it still within his mouth:
  • Ezekiel 5:11 Wherefore, as I live, saith the Lord GOD; Surely, because thou hast defiled my sanctuary with all thy detestable things, and with all thine abominations, therefore will I also diminish thee; neither shall mine eye spare, neither will I have any pity.

“jealousy” Hebrew H7068 · used in 41 verses

  • Numbers 5:14 And the spirit of jealousy come upon him, and he be jealous of his wife, and she be defiled: or if the spirit of jealousy come upon him, and he be jealous of his wife, and she be not defiled:
  • Psalms 119:139 My zeal hath consumed me, because mine enemies have forgotten thy words.
  • Ezekiel 5:13 Thus shall mine anger be accomplished, and I will cause my fury to rest upon them, and I will be comforted: and they shall know that I the LORD have spoken it in my zeal, when I have accomplished my fury in them.

“man” Hebrew H1397 · used in 64 verses

  • Exodus 10:11 Not so: go now ye that are men, and serve the LORD; for that ye did desire. And they were driven out from Pharaoh's presence.
  • Job 33:17 That he may withdraw man from his purpose, and hide pride from man.
  • Proverbs 30:1 The words of Agur the son of Jakeh, even the prophecy: the man spake unto Ithiel, even unto Ithiel and Ucal,