And they all wept sore, and fell on Paul's neck, and kissed him,

ACTS 20:37KJV
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What does Acts 20:37 mean?

Acts 20:37 describes a deeply emotional farewell, where everyone present wept intensely, embraced Paul, and kissed him as he was about to leave. The verse highlights the strong bond and affection between Paul and the people he had served.

In this scene, Paul is saying goodbye to the elders of the church in Ephesus after giving them a heartfelt farewell speech. The group’s reaction shows just how much Paul meant to them, and how painful it was for them to part ways. Their tears and physical gestures—falling on his neck and kissing him—show the depth of their love and sorrow.

The Greek behind Acts 20:37

  • The word for "wept" (κλαυθμὸς, klauthmos, G2805) paired with "sore" (ἱκανῶς, hikanōs, G2425) emphasizes not just crying, but a strong, overwhelming grief. This is more than a few tears; it is loud, heartfelt mourning.
  • "Fell on Paul's neck" uses the Greek word ἐπιπίπτω (epipiptō, G1968), which often describes an emotional embrace, sometimes in reunion or farewell, showing deep affection and connection.
  • The word for "kissed" (κατεφίλουν, katephiloun, G2705) is an intensified form, suggesting repeated or fervent kissing, not just a single gesture, underlining the warmth and closeness of their relationship.

Why Acts 20:37 matters

  • This verse clears up any idea that Paul’s relationships were only formal or distant; it shows the real, personal attachment he had with the people he served.
  • The strong emotional response helps the reader understand the gravity of Paul’s departure and the impact he had on the early Christian community.
  • In the wider passage, this moment sets the tone for the seriousness of Paul’s warnings and instructions, highlighting that his words carried weight because of the genuine love and respect between him and the Ephesian elders.

Where else these words appear

“kissed” Greek G2705 · used in 6 verses

  • Matthew 26:49 And forthwith he came to Jesus, and said, Hail, master; and kissed him.
  • Mark 14:45 And as soon as he was come, he goeth straightway to him, and saith, Master, master; and kissed him.
  • Luke 7:45 Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet.

“neck” Greek G5137 · used in 7 verses

  • Matthew 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
  • Luke 15:20 And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
  • Acts 15:10 Now therefore why tempt ye God, to put a yoke upon the neck of the disciples, which neither our fathers nor we were able to bear?

“wept” Greek G2805 · used in 9 verses

  • Matthew 2:18 In Rama was there a voice heard, lamentation, and weeping, and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her children, and would not be comforted, because they are not.
  • Matthew 13:42 And shall cast them into a furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth.
  • Matthew 24:51 And shall cut him asunder, and appoint him his portion with the hypocrites: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

“fell” Greek G1968 · used in 13 verses

  • Mark 3:10 For he had healed many; insomuch that they pressed upon him for to touch him, as many as had plagues.
  • Acts 8:16 (For as yet he was fallen upon none of them: only they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus.)
  • Acts 13:11 And now, behold, the hand of the Lord is upon thee, and thou shalt be blind, not seeing the sun for a season. And immediately there fell on him a mist and a darkness; and he went about seeking some to lead him by the hand.