And her brother and her mother said, Let the damsel abide with us a few days, at the least ten; after that she shall go.

GENESIS 24:55KJV
Know the Bible

What does Genesis 24:55 mean?

Genesis 24:55 shows Rebekah’s brother and mother asking Abraham’s servant to let Rebekah stay with them for a few more days—at least ten—before she leaves with him. They are not refusing the marriage proposal but want more time with her before she departs.

Rebekah’s family is speaking to Abraham’s servant, who has come to take Rebekah as a wife for Isaac. The family’s request comes after they have agreed to the marriage, showing both their acceptance and their emotional attachment to Rebekah. This verse highlights the human side of the story, where family bonds and the difficulty of saying goodbye are evident.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 24:55

  • "damsel" (נַעֲרָה, na‘arah): This word means a young woman or girl, emphasizing Rebekah’s youth and the significance of her leaving home.
  • "abide" (יָשַׁב, yashav): This word means to stay, dwell, or remain, showing the family’s desire for Rebekah to linger with them a little longer before departing.
  • "days" (יָמִים, yamim): The word for "days" can sometimes mean an indefinite short period, but here it is clarified as "at least ten," showing they wanted a specific, though brief, delay.

Why Genesis 24:55 matters

  • This verse clears up that Rebekah’s family was not trying to block the marriage but simply wanted more time before she left, reflecting normal family emotions.
  • The request for a delay highlights the suddenness and finality of Rebekah’s departure, which adds emotional depth to the story.
  • Genesis 24:55 connects to the larger theme of God’s guidance and timing in the chapter, as the servant is eager to return quickly, trusting in God’s leading.

Where else these words appear

“ten” Hebrew H6218 · used in 16 verses

  • Exodus 12:3 Speak ye unto all the congregation of Israel, saying, In the tenth day of this month they shall take to them every man a lamb, according to the house of their fathers, a lamb for an house:
  • Joshua 4:19 And the people came up out of Jordan on the tenth day of the first month, and encamped in Gilgal, in the east border of Jericho.
  • Jeremiah 52:4 And it came to pass in the ninth year of his reign, in the tenth month, in the tenth day of the month, that Nebuchadrezzar king of Babylon came, he and all his army, against Jerusalem, and pitched against it, and built forts against it round about.

“least” Hebrew H176 · used in 19 verses

  • Genesis 24:49 And now if ye will deal kindly and truly with my master, tell me: and if not, tell me; that I may turn to the right hand, or to the left.
  • Leviticus 5:1 And if a soul sin, and hear the voice of swearing, and is a witness, whether he hath seen or known of it; if he do not utter it, then he shall bear his iniquity.
  • 2 Samuel 18:13 Otherwise I should have wrought falsehood against mine own life: for there is no matter hid from the king, and thou thyself wouldest have set thyself against me.

“damsel” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
  • 1 Kings 1:3 So they sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of Israel, and found Abishag a Shunammite, and brought her to the king.