And his father in law, the damsel's father, retained him; and he abode with him three days: so they did eat and drink, and lodged there.

JUDGES 19:4KJV
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What does Judges 19:4 mean?

Judges 19:4 describes how the Levite’s father-in-law, the young woman’s father, persuaded the Levite to stay with him for three days, during which they ate, drank, and spent the nights there. The verse shows a period of hospitality and delay before the Levite and his concubine continue their journey.

The setting is in the house of the young woman’s father, after the Levite has come to bring his concubine back home. The father-in-law is eager for his guest to remain, which is shown by the word “retained.” This hospitality is a key part of ancient Middle Eastern culture, where welcoming and caring for guests was a serious duty. The verse sets the stage for the events that follow by highlighting the extended stay and the relationship between the Levite and his father-in-law.

The Hebrew behind Judges 19:4

  • “Retained” comes from חָזַק (ḥāzaq), which often means to “hold fast” or “urge strongly.” Here, it suggests the father-in-law was insistent, not just politely inviting but actively persuading the Levite to stay longer.
  • “Abode” is from יָשַׁב (yāshav), meaning “to dwell” or “to sit.” This word emphasizes that the Levite settled in for a proper visit, not just a brief stop.
  • “Eat” (אָכַל, ’āḵal) and “drink” (שָׁתָה, shāṯāh) are straightforward, but together they highlight the social aspect of the visit—sharing meals was a sign of acceptance and fellowship.

Why Judges 19:4 matters

  • This verse helps explain the delay that leads to the later events in the chapter, showing that the Levite’s journey was postponed by the father-in-law’s insistence.
  • The emphasis on hospitality and repeated urging gives insight into the customs and values of the time, where hosting guests was a mark of honor and relationship.
  • Understanding this extended stay helps the reader see how the story’s tragic events are set in motion by a series of seemingly ordinary choices and customs.

Where else these words appear

“law” Hebrew H2859 · used in 32 verses

  • Genesis 34:9 And make ye marriages with us, and give your daughters unto us, and take our daughters unto you.
  • Exodus 18:14 And when Moses' father in law saw all that he did to the people, he said, What is this thing that thou doest to the people? why sittest thou thyself alone, and all the people stand by thee from morning unto even?
  • Judges 4:11 Now Heber the Kenite, which was of the children of Hobab the father in law of Moses, had severed himself from the Kenites, and pitched his tent unto the plain of Zaanaim, which is by Kedesh.

“damsel's” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.
  • 1 Kings 1:3 So they sought for a fair damsel throughout all the coasts of Israel, and found Abishag a Shunammite, and brought her to the king.

“lodged” Hebrew H3885 · used in 79 verses

  • Genesis 19:2 And he said, Behold now, my lords, turn in, I pray you, into your servant's house, and tarry all night, and wash your feet, and ye shall rise up early, and go on your ways. And they said, Nay; but we will abide in the street all night.
  • Joshua 3:1 And Joshua rose early in the morning; and they removed from Shittim, and came to Jordan, he and all the children of Israel, and lodged there before they passed over.
  • Job 17:2 Are there not mockers with me? and doth not mine eye continue in their provocation?