And he washed his face, and went out, and refrained himself, and said, Set on bread.

GENESIS 43:31KJV
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What does Genesis 43:31 mean?

Genesis 43:31 describes Joseph regaining his composure after being emotionally moved, washing his face, and returning to his brothers before instructing his servants to serve the meal. The verse shows Joseph controlling his emotions and preparing to interact with his brothers in a formal setting.

Joseph, who is now a powerful official in Egypt, has just been overcome with emotion after seeing his younger brother Benjamin for the first time in years. He steps away to weep privately, then washes his face (a sign of regaining self-control), and returns to his brothers. The command "Set on bread" signals the start of the meal, showing Joseph’s readiness to continue the encounter in a dignified way.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 43:31

  • "washed" (רָחַץ, rachats): This word means to wash or cleanse. Joseph washing his face is a practical step to hide his tears and regain composure before appearing in public again.
  • "refrained" (אָפַק, afaq): This word is often understood as holding back or restraining oneself. Here, it highlights Joseph’s effort to control his strong emotions and not reveal his true identity or feelings to his brothers.
  • "bread" (לֶחֶם, lechem): In Hebrew, "lechem" refers broadly to food or a meal, not just literal bread. Joseph’s command to "set on bread" means to begin serving the meal, not just to bring out bread.

Why Genesis 43:31 matters

  • The verse highlights Joseph’s deep emotional struggle and his determination to keep his identity hidden until the right moment, which adds tension and depth to the story.
  • Understanding the original words gives insight into Joseph’s self-control and the cultural practice of washing before a meal or before appearing in public after weeping.
  • The command to "set on bread" connects this moment to the larger narrative of reconciliation and hospitality, showing Joseph’s care for his brothers even while he remains in disguise.