If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

EXODUS 21:10KJV
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What does Exodus 21:10 mean?

Exodus 21:10 says that if a man takes another wife, he must not reduce the first wife's food, clothing, or marital rights. The verse sets a legal standard to protect the first wife's basic needs and status, even if her husband marries someone else.

This instruction comes from a section where God, through Moses, gives laws to the Israelites about fair treatment within households. The verse specifically addresses situations where a man has more than one wife, making sure the first wife is not neglected or deprived of her rightful care and respect.

The Hebrew behind Exodus 21:10

  • "Food" (שְׁאֵרָהּ, she'erah): This word often means "flesh" or "body," but here it is understood as food or sustenance, highlighting the husband's duty to provide for his wife's basic needs.
  • "Raiment" (כְּסוּתָהּ, kesutah): This word means "covering" or "clothing," emphasizing that the wife must continue to receive proper clothing and material support.
  • "Marriage" (עֹנָתָהּ, onatah): This word points to marital rights or conjugal relations, showing that emotional and physical aspects of the marriage must not be neglected.
  • "Diminish" (גָּרַע, gara): This verb means "to diminish" or "to withhold," making clear that none of these rights or provisions can be reduced because of a second marriage.

Why Exodus 21:10 matters

  • Exodus 21:10 clarifies that the law protected women’s rights in marriage, even in a culture where polygamy was practiced, by requiring ongoing care for the first wife.
  • The verse shows that the law was concerned with fairness and dignity within family life, not just ritual or religious matters.
  • This command fits into a wider passage about justice and compassion, helping us see how ancient Israelite law aimed to prevent abuse and neglect in practical, everyday situations.

Where else these words appear

“raiment” Hebrew H3682 · used in 8 verses

  • Genesis 20:16 And unto Sarah he said, Behold, I have given thy brother a thousand pieces of silver: behold, he is to thee a covering of the eyes, unto all that are with thee, and with all other: thus she was reproved.
  • Deuteronomy 22:12 Thou shalt make thee fringes upon the four quarters of thy vesture, wherewith thou coverest thyself.
  • Job 26:6 Hell is naked before him, and destruction hath no covering.

“food” Hebrew H7607 · used in 16 verses

  • Leviticus 18:6 None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am the LORD.
  • Leviticus 25:49 Either his uncle, or his uncle's son, may redeem him, or any that is nigh of kin unto him of his family may redeem him; or if he be able, he may redeem himself.
  • Proverbs 5:11 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

“diminish” Hebrew H1639 · used in 20 verses

  • Exodus 5:8 And the tale of the bricks, which they did make heretofore, ye shall lay upon them; ye shall not diminish ought thereof: for they be idle; therefore they cry, saying, Let us go and sacrifice to our God.
  • Numbers 36:3 And if they be married to any of the sons of the other tribes of the children of Israel, then shall their inheritance be taken from the inheritance of our fathers, and shall be put to the inheritance of the tribe whereunto they are received: so shall it be taken from the lot of our inheritance.
  • Job 36:7 He withdraweth not his eyes from the righteous: but with kings are they on the throne; yea, he doth establish them for ever, and they are exalted.