But the king covered his face, and the king cried with a loud voice, O my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!

2 SAMUEL 19:4KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 19:4 mean?

2 Samuel 19:4 describes King David in deep mourning, covering his face and loudly crying out for his son Absalom, repeating his son's name in grief. The verse shows David’s overwhelming sorrow after learning of Absalom’s death, expressing a father’s pain rather than a king’s composure.

David is the speaker here, and he is not addressing anyone directly but is instead overcome by his own emotions. The setting is immediately after Absalom, David’s rebellious son, has been killed in battle. David’s public display of grief is striking, especially for a king, and it highlights the personal cost of the conflict within his own family.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 19:4

  • "Covered" (וַיִּתְעַטֵּ֣ף, vayit'attef): This word means to wrap or cover oneself, often as a sign of mourning or distress. David’s act of covering his face shows his deep personal anguish and shame.
  • "Cried" (וַיִּזְעַ֞ק, vayiz‘aq): This verb means to cry out or wail loudly, not just to speak or weep quietly. The verse emphasizes the intensity and volume of David’s grief.
  • "Son" (בְּנִי, beni): The repeated use of this word underscores David’s focus on his relationship to Absalom as a father, not just as a king dealing with a rebellious subject.

Why 2 Samuel 19:4 matters

  • The verse clears up any idea that David was only concerned with his kingship or political power; his repeated cries show his heartbreak as a father.
  • This moment connects to the wider story by showing the tragic consequences of family conflict and rebellion, as well as the cost of leadership.
  • The verse also sets the stage for the tension that follows, as David’s public mourning affects how his people and commanders view him in the aftermath of Absalom’s rebellion.

Where else these words appear

“cried” Hebrew H2199 · used in 73 verses

  • Exodus 2:23 And it came to pass in process of time, that the king of Egypt died: and the children of Israel sighed by reason of the bondage, and they cried, and their cry came up unto God by reason of the bondage.
  • 1 Samuel 28:12 And when the woman saw Samuel, she cried with a loud voice: and the woman spake to Saul, saying, Why hast thou deceived me? for thou art Saul.
  • Isaiah 30:19 For the people shall dwell in Zion at Jerusalem: thou shalt weep no more: he will be very gracious unto thee at the voice of thy cry; when he shall hear it, he will answer thee.

“Absalom” Hebrew H53 · used in 92 verses

  • 2 Samuel 3:3 And his second, Chileab, of Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of Maacah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur;
  • 2 Samuel 15:1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom prepared him chariots and horses, and fifty men to run before him.
  • 2 Samuel 17:15 Then said Hushai unto Zadok and to Abiathar the priests, Thus and thus did Ahithophel counsel Absalom and the elders of Israel; and thus and thus have I counselled.