Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

PROVERBS 31:23KJV
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What does Proverbs 31:23 mean?

Proverbs 31:23 describes how the husband of the “virtuous woman” is respected and recognized in the community, sitting among the elders at the city gates. The verse highlights the public honor and status of the husband, which is closely connected to his wife’s character and actions.

This verse is part of a poem spoken by a mother to her son, describing the qualities of an ideal wife. In ancient Israel, the city gates were where leaders and elders gathered to make decisions and settle disputes. The verse shows that the woman’s wisdom and diligence at home contribute to her husband’s good reputation in public life.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 31:23

  • gates (שַּׁעַר, shaʿar): The “gates” were the center of public life, where legal matters and community business took place. Mentioning the gates signals a place of authority and respect.
  • elders (זָקֵן, zaqen): “Elders” refers to respected leaders in the community, often older men chosen for their wisdom. Sitting among them means the husband is counted as a leader.
  • known (יָדַע, yadaʿ): The word often means to be recognized or acknowledged. Here, it suggests the husband’s reputation is well established, not just his presence.

Why Proverbs 31:23 matters

  • Proverbs 31:23 shows that the woman’s influence extends beyond her household, affecting her husband’s standing in the wider community.
  • The verse helps clear up the idea that the “virtuous woman” is only focused on home life; her efforts support and elevate her family’s public reputation.
  • This verse connects to the wider passage by showing how the qualities described in the woman have ripple effects, bringing honor and stability to her whole household.

Where else these words appear

“husband” Hebrew H1167 · used in 78 verses

  • Genesis 14:13 And there came one that had escaped, and told Abram the Hebrew; for he dwelt in the plain of Mamre the Amorite, brother of Eshcol, and brother of Aner: and these were confederate with Abram.
  • Judges 9:18 And ye are risen up against my father's house this day, and have slain his sons, threescore and ten persons, upon one stone, and have made Abimelech, the son of his maidservant, king over the men of Shechem, because he is your brother;)
  • Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.