She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

PROVERBS 31:20KJV
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What does Proverbs 31:20 mean?

Proverbs 31:20 describes a woman who willingly helps those in need, reaching out her hands to the poor and the needy. The verse highlights her generosity and active concern for others, showing that her goodness extends beyond her own household.

This verse is part of a passage where a mother describes the qualities of a virtuous woman to her son, King Lemuel. The focus here is on her practical kindness—she does not just feel compassion but takes action to support those who are struggling. This shows that her character is marked by both empathy and a readiness to help.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 31:20

  • The word for "poor" is עָנִי (ʿani), which often refers to someone who is afflicted or humble, not just financially poor but also vulnerable in other ways. This broadens the sense of whom she helps.
  • The word for "needy" is אֶבְיוֹן (evyon), which typically means someone lacking basic necessities. The verse emphasizes that her care reaches people in real hardship.
  • The verb translated "stretcheth out" is פָּרַשׂ (paras), meaning to spread out or extend. This suggests a deliberate, open-handed action, not something done reluctantly or half-heartedly.

Why Proverbs 31:20 matters

  • This verse clarifies that the ideal woman described in Proverbs 31 is not only hardworking at home but also generous and attentive to the needs of others outside her family.
  • The verse highlights that true virtue includes practical acts of kindness and generosity, not just personal piety or domestic skill.
  • By mentioning both the "poor" and the "needy," the verse shows a broad concern for all kinds of vulnerable people, making her example relevant to anyone seeking to live out compassion in daily life.

Where else these words appear

“needy” Hebrew H34 · used in 58 verses

  • Exodus 23:6 Thou shalt not wrest the judgment of thy poor in his cause.
  • Psalms 40:17 But I am poor and needy; yet the Lord thinketh upon me: thou art my help and my deliverer; make no tarrying, O my God.
  • Proverbs 30:14 There is a generation, whose teeth are as swords, and their jaw teeth as knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, and the needy from among men.

“out” Hebrew H6566 · used in 66 verses

  • Exodus 9:29 And Moses said unto him, As soon as I am gone out of the city, I will spread abroad my hands unto the LORD; and the thunder shall cease, neither shall there be any more hail; that thou mayest know how that the earth is the LORD'S.
  • 2 Kings 8:15 And it came to pass on the morrow, that he took a thick cloth, and dipped it in water, and spread it on his face, so that he died: and Hazael reigned in his stead.
  • Isaiah 33:23 Thy tacklings are loosed; they could not well strengthen their mast, they could not spread the sail: then is the prey of a great spoil divided; the lame take the prey.

“poor” Hebrew H6041 · used in 78 verses

  • Exodus 22:25 If thou lend money to any of my people that is poor by thee, thou shalt not be to him as an usurer, neither shalt thou lay upon him usury.
  • Psalms 34:6 This poor man cried, and the LORD heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles.
  • Ecclesiastes 6:8 For what hath the wise more than the fool? what hath the poor, that knoweth to walk before the living?